About
Why this exists
Most shidduchim don’t happen because the right two people never landed in front of the same shadchan at the right time. Every shadchan is working hard - off their own list, their own notebook, their own memory. Nobody is doing anything wrong. Everyone is just working alone.
You’ve seen what that costs. The same boy gets redt to the same girl twice by two people who never spoke. A resume goes out on a Sunday and nobody calls back because nobody owned the call. You spend an hour asking a family the exact questions another shadchan asked them last winter.
shadchan.im is the fix: one central database, every approved shadchan, every single. Suggestions, follow-ups, meetings and notes, all kept, all findable, all attached to the person they belong to.
What we hold to
- Free, forever.
- It’s a nonprofit. No tier, no upsell, no catch.
- Private stays private.
- Your notes are stored separately from everything public. Nobody sees them - not other shadchanim, not organizations.
- A person approves every profile.
- Nothing submitted through an intake form reaches All Shadchanim until staff review it.
- The single’s record outlives the work.
- When a couple gets engaged, the profiles come out of search and the history stays for the people who need it.
Who it’s for
Approved shadchanim and the staff of shidduch organizations. That’s it. Those are the only two kinds of account, and a person reviews every one.
Not a dating site. No public directory, no browsing, no accounts for singles or parents.
A question about a profile, an account, or privacy?
Send a request. A person reads it, and you get a reference number to quote if you follow up.